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  1. Trauma and Genius
  2. Movies and Parental Supervision
  3. Social Skills are Mostly LEARNED
  4. Weekly Record Keeping for Homeschooling
  5. Reading Tools for Dead Tree Books
  6. The Chaos AKA English is Tough Stuff
  7. Per Pupil Expenditures is a Broken Metric
  8. Matching Coat and Shoes FTW
  9. Technology and Child Development
  10. Hothousing
  11. Teaching Writing to a Kid that Hated Writing
  12. If You Sew...
  13. Qualifications. I guess.
  14. Stand and Deliver
  15. Learning the Times Tables
  16. Factoring, Prime Factoring and Finding the Least Common Multiple
  17. Concrete Math
  18. Michele's Made-Up Math Grammar
  19. Credentials versus Education
  20. Old School Cool
  21. Math Juggling
  22. Education is the lighting of a fire, not the filling of a pail.
  23. Testing, Assessment and Education
  24. Education Quotes
  25. Free Latin
  26. The Art of Not Passing Baggage onto the Kids
  27. What Are You Actually Teaching the Kids?
  28. Social Stuff and Difficult Kids
  29. For Love of Math
  30. Kids with very challenging traits
  31. Words
  32. Clear Communication
  33. IQ Tests
  34. Facepalming and Eye Rolling
  35. Dinosaurs and Prehistory
  36. Understanding Physical Scale
  37. Letting Him Shine
  38. Santa, The Stork and Other Delusions
  39. The Truth
  40. Face Blindness AKA Prosopagnosia
  41. Curls Without Tears
  42. One Wonders What Might Constitute "Altruistic Reasons" to Have a Child
  43. When Earth-Bound Human Kids Get Rich and Famous
  44. Best Birthday Present Ever

  45. Games
  46. Adolescence
  47. Honestly
  48. Why?
  49. Jump, Jive an' Wail
  50. Massage
  51. Bathroom Policy
  52. Sleep and Respiratory Issues in Infants
  53. Taking care of "mom"
  54. Some Baby Basics
  55. Tigger, The Great Hotdog Hunter
  56. The Invisible Majority
  57. Third Culture Kids
  58. Playing Fair
  59. Social and Emotional Issues in Gifted Youth
  60. Bored Gifted Kid Syndrome (TM)
  61. Motherly Love
  62. Feeding the Need
  63. Genes
  64. Home Training
  65. The Pink Panther Bathroom
  66. Wired for Science
  67. The Ladder
  68. Elevation
  69. Tie a knot in it
  70. Memory Lane
  71. On: Labels
  72. Crazy Conclusions in Early Childhood
  73. I think the kids are mostly alright. It's the world that changed.
  74. Grocery Shopping in Quarters in Germany
  75. The Hand Licking Incident
  76. The Dripping Sarcasm Voice
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The Hand Licking Incident

When my oldest son was seven and in second grade, we were living in Kansas. Some time after the school year started, he began licking his hands. He soon was doing so all day, every day. His teacher wanted it to stop. So did his dad, my husband. I was a young homemaker, financially dependent on my husband, and I was feeling enormously pressured by both of these people. I also felt they both had real careers and didn't genuinely respect me. They both felt it was my job and mine alone to somehow make my son stop licking his hands entirely. I caved to the pressure. I tried telling my child to stop. I tried spanking him. I tried putting unpleasant spices on his hands to deter him. I tried grilling him about why he was doing this so I could find some solution. He couldn't explain it and the terror in his eyes was disturbing. None of it made any difference whatsoever. He continued to lick his hands all day, every day. He just tried to hide it a little better. Meanwhile, our rela...
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Crazy Conclusions in Early Childhood

From my last post on this site: One recurring theme: Bright kids of a certain age are just smart enough to jump to crazy conclusions rooted in lots of knowledge for their age but little real world experience. This seems common in the roughly toddler to preschool age range. I can readily think of a few examples of this from my oldest son's early years. The easiest one to tell is his ladybug freak out. He was about four years old and we were living in a third-floor walk-up in Germany. There were some really tall trees outside his bedroom window and one day there was a small ladybug invasion in his bedroom. He was inexplicably just terrified of the handful of yellow-and-black ladybugs on his bedroom wall. I actually laughed out loud because it seemed comical, but then I took him out of the room and closed the door and made sure he was protected from being around these bugs even though they were harmless. I kept the door shut to his room for a few days and he slept in my room u...
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Letting him shine

Clip:  Save the Last Dance, audition scene I kind of hate the above scene. It's sort of cringe and probably highly unrealistic but movies do a lot of things to try to communicate plot points to the audience that a more realistic scene wouldn't communicate. The backstory is her mother died in a car wreck while she was at an audition if I recall correctly and she ends up moving in with her loser father, going from a big house in a very White suburb to a cramped inner city apartment and predominantly Black high school. She stops dancing, feeling like it's her fault her mother died. She gets involved with the boy in the above scene and on the phone a friend from the old neighborhood expresses surprise that there are any White boys to date at her new school and classmates give her a hard time about "a white girl taking one of the few good men we got." So there's a lot of social baggage here and he encourages her to resume dancing, helps her learn new moves from his...
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